My life is a mirror.
The people in my life are really mirrors of me. This affords me the opportunity to grow and change.
-Louise Hay – Power Thought Cards
I used to hate it when I got THAT card. How about “My future is Glorious!” or “My income is constantly increasing.”?
Not that I disagree in any way. On the contrary I know it to be true. In my article for this month’s Wild Sister magazine I relay the story of how I learned to love a shadow part of my self, partly thanks to having seen it (and being disturbed by it) in others. It’s just that it’s a lesson, it’s work. It’s not “My future is Glorious!”… Or is it??
In Interfaith Seminary, the Reverend Diane Burke talked to us about the “Clear Mirror”; the reflection back to us of our own beauty and depth via those we admire, adore and even idolize. I silently gasped. Of course! If I can see what is not so perfect about myself through those things that annoy me in another, why couldn’t I see my perfection in those that I love and respect?!
Seeing the ‘flaws’ in someone else I can go to where I have been like that or where I am capable of that – because aren’t we all capable of everything; love and hate, generosity and greed…
And now, seeing the brilliance, creativity, courage and Divine light in another I can go to where that resides in me… and celebrate it. Appreciate it. LOVE it. I am capable of all that too. And then I’m not (as) jealous! I see me, me… fabulous ME!
I am surrounded by it lately, and have been for quite some time. Gorgeous-in-their-being people giving to the world from their authentic gifts, with compassionate hearts, humor and lightness.
- The genius of Alexandra Franzen.
- The creative wealth of Lori Portka.
- The intuitive love of Melanie May.
- The business bravado of Saraswati Om.
- The generosity of Rich Lucchese.
To name a few.
It is a lesson. Yes. A lesson in the Divinity within me, and you, and how it bounces around for us all to see it more clearly, own it… and share it with the world.







